Hello everyone.
I thought I might post and tell my story with regards to ADHD and detail some of the challenges I’ve faced with the view to start a conversation about things that help and things that don’t.
I recently turned 46 in December. I was diagnosed with ADHD a few weeks before my 46th birthday. During the diagnosis process I was also told that I have a number of clear autistic traits and that I should consider a further diagnosis of autism.
For as long as I can remember I felt different from other people. I have vivid memories of childhood and school finding it super difficult to fit in and make friends.
I always remember feeling emotions so incredibly strongly. I remember struggling a great deal to understand the rules and dynamics of friendships. Still to this day I don’t really fully grasp what is required to be…
Hi Andy,
I know what you mean about friends, I’ve struggled with that for a long time. About a year ago I joined a group called Round Table, which is a men’s social group, we do a bit of charity/community work as well but that’s optional. A lot of members have similar stories and I’ve found it’s like a ready made friendship group.
I’m not sure where you’re based, if you’re nearby then we have a group in Whitley Bay. We meet twice a month (sometimes as-hoc in between as well) and as someone with ADHD (and also a non-drinker) I like that we often do an activity rather than just sitting in the pub.
Our next meeting is Jan 22nd, let me know if you’re local - you should come along! If you’re not near me, they have groups all around the country, each one is slightly different, but if definitely recommend as someone who struggled making friends their whole life, and now would say I have a few good friends.
Cheers,
Steve